http: deprecate aborted property and event

Refs: nodejs#33120
Refs: nodejs#33172

Author: ronag

doc/api/deprecations.md

@@ -2668,6 +2668,34 @@ Type: Documentation-only
 
 Use [`request.destroy()`][] instead of [`request.abort()`][].
 
+<a id="DEP0XXX"></a>
+### DEP0XX: Use `request.destroyed` instead of `request.aborted`
+<!-- YAML
+changes:
+  - version:
+    - REPLACEME
+    pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33345
+    description: Documentation-only deprecation.
+-->
+
+Type: Documentation-only
+
+Use [`request.destroyed`][] instead of [`request.aborted`][].
+
+<a id="DEP0XXX"></a>
+### DEP0XX: Use `'error'` event instead of `'aborted'`
+<!-- YAML
+changes:
+  - version:
+    - REPLACEME
+    pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33345
+    description: Documentation-only deprecation.
+-->
+
+Type: Documentation-only
+
+Use `'error'` event instead of `'aborted'`.
+
 [`--pending-deprecation`]: cli.html#cli_pending_deprecation
 [`--throw-deprecation`]: cli.html#cli_throw_deprecation
 [`Buffer.allocUnsafeSlow(size)`]: buffer.html#buffer_class_method_buffer_allocunsafeslow_size

doc/api/http.md

@@ -584,8 +584,12 @@ changes:
   - version: v11.0.0
     pr-url: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20230
     description: The `aborted` property is no longer a timestamp number.
+  deprecated:
+    - REPLACEME
 -->
 
+> Stability: 0 - Deprecated: Use [`request.destroyed`][] instead.
+
 * {boolean}
 
 The `request.aborted` property will be `true` if the request has
@@ -1799,8 +1803,13 @@ status, headers and data.
 ### Event: `'aborted'`
 <!-- YAML
 added: v0.3.8
+changes:
+  deprecated:
+    - REPLACEME
 -->
 
+> Stability: 0 - Deprecated: Use the `'error'` event instead.
+
 Emitted when the request has been aborted.
 
 ### Event: `'close'`