[3.12] Add some 'meta hooks' to our pre-commit config (GH-110587) (#110599)

Add some 'meta hooks' to our pre-commit config (GH-110587)
(cherry picked from commit d5ec77f)

Co-authored-by: Alex Waygood <[email protected]>

Author: miss-islington

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -26,3 +26,8 @@ repos:
         args: [--enable=default-role]
         files: ^Doc/|^Misc/NEWS.d/next/
         types: [rst]
+
+  - repo: meta
+    hooks:
+      - id: check-hooks-apply
+      - id: check-useless-excludes