Add default options and a builder to CLI

[reneSchm]

Changes and Information

Please briefly list the changes (main added features, changed items, or corrected bugs) made:

• Reworked CLI internals to reduce compile time.
• Add "default options" feature to the CLI, implementing a common CLI usage pattern.
• Add a ParameterSetBuilder to simplify creating parameter sets specifically for use with the CLI.

If need be, add additional information and what the reviewer should look out for in particular:

• The new StringLiteral comparision operators are currently unused. It is a leftover of a different solution for finding cli::ParameterSet members. The operators can be removed on request.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 98.28767% with 5 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 97.24%. Comparing base (dd116d7) to head (2dc0680).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
cpp/memilio/io/cli.h	97.05%	5 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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