feat: enhance listdata selection methods

[rbuzatto]

Closes #7666

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• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
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[rbuzatto]

• added validation for including/removing valid keys only
• checked if final Selection equals to all valid item keys to return 'all'

[rbuzatto]

somewhat related; current setSelectedKeys implementation only forwards selectedKeys arguments. there are some validation here that could be eventually be helpful, (e.g. check if selection is an array of all keys set as 'all' instead of the provided array) I could be adding here too if it makes sense

[snowystinger]

Thanks for starting this PR, just a couple of notes to start

[LFDanLu]

Looks good to me, thanks for the contribution! Pushed a couple of additional test cases, hope you don't mind

[rbuzatto]

Looks good to me, thanks for the contribution! Pushed a couple of additional test cases, hope you don't mind

thanks for including these test, they are good additions.