chore: Update dependencies

[KSDaemon]

This PR updates all project dependencies to the latest possible (without breaking) + a bit of easy-taken refactoring.
The huge part of this PR - unmaintained nodeunit is replaced with mocha+chai.
GH workflow actions were updated to latest too.

I also added different Java distributions to test matrix.

Updating to the latest and replacing nodeunit allows to remove all (besides one not fixed yet) the CVEs in transitive dependencies:

❯ osv-scanner --lockfile=./yarn.lock
Scanned /Users/kostik/Projects/Cube.dev/node-jdbc/yarn.lock file and found 223 packages
╭─────────────────────────────────────┬──────┬───────────┬─────────┬─────────┬───────────╮
│ OSV URL                             │ CVSS │ ECOSYSTEM │ PACKAGE │ VERSION │ SOURCE    │
├─────────────────────────────────────┼──────┼───────────┼─────────┼─────────┼───────────┤
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-2p57-rm9w-gvfp │ 8.1  │ npm       │ ip      │ 2.0.1   │ yarn.lock │
╰─────────────────────────────────────┴──────┴───────────┴─────────┴─────────┴───────────╯

Compared to previous ones:

❯ osv-scanner --lockfile=./yarn.lock
Scanned /Users/kostik/Projects/Cube.dev/node-jdbc/yarn.lock file and found 377 packages
╭─────────────────────────────────────┬──────┬───────────┬─────────────────┬─────────┬───────────╮
│ OSV URL                             │ CVSS │ ECOSYSTEM │ PACKAGE         │ VERSION │ SOURCE    │
├─────────────────────────────────────┼──────┼───────────┼─────────────────┼─────────┼───────────┤
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-67hx-6x53-jw92 │ 9.3  │ npm       │ @babel/traverse │ 7.20.12 │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-3xgq-45jj-v275 │ 7.5  │ npm       │ cross-spawn     │ 4.0.2   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-3xgq-45jj-v275 │ 7.5  │ npm       │ cross-spawn     │ 7.0.3   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-h6ch-v84p-w6p9 │      │ npm       │ diff            │ 1.4.0   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-phwq-j96m-2c2q │ 9.8  │ npm       │ ejs             │ 2.7.4   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-ghr5-ch3p-vcr6 │ 6.9  │ npm       │ ejs             │ 2.7.4   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-78xj-cgh5-2h22 │      │ npm       │ ip              │ 2.0.0   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-2p57-rm9w-gvfp │ 8.1  │ npm       │ ip              │ 2.0.0   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-p8p7-x288-28g6 │ 6.1  │ npm       │ request         │ 2.88.2  │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-c2qf-rxjj-qqgw │ 7.5  │ npm       │ semver          │ 5.7.1   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-c2qf-rxjj-qqgw │ 7.5  │ npm       │ semver          │ 6.3.0   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-f5x3-32g6-xq36 │ 6.5  │ npm       │ tar             │ 6.2.0   │ yarn.lock │
│ https://osv.dev/GHSA-72xf-g2v4-qvf3 │ 6.5  │ npm       │ tough-cookie    │ 2.5.0   │ yarn.lock │
╰─────────────────────────────────────┴──────┴───────────┴─────────────────┴─────────┴───────────╯