Failed xhr calls can be matched up with later calls

[mjhenkes]

Current behavior

This issue was discovered by investigating flake in the redirect driver tests. An xhr call would randomly show up in the log where none should be.

Note the blue 'xhr' request in the third test case.

*screenshot from the reproduced test case but you can see the problem regardless.

Desired behavior

Improve xhr matching and clean up failed xhr calls that have failed each retry.

Test code to reproduce

Using branch mimatched-xhr-calls
I've created a test case called 'retry_spec` in the driver to showcase the problem

The test fails an xhr call 25 times to queue up the failed pre-request then uses a meta redirect to make the same call which will match to a failed xhr call.

Cypress Version

9.0.0 and earlier

Other

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