Partial rewrite of the destructuring rule

[HenriBeck]

Pull Request for #1709

This introduces an object as an option for specifying different behavior for different component types.

I also added a check if we are in a render method for class components (don't know if this is wanted but the docs only showed examples with render methods).

What is still missing:

• Checking for destructuring props inside the functional component body
• Update tests
• Update Docs
• Add an option for allowing the props inside class properties (Future PR)
• Add an option for also validating class methods (Future PR)

This also fixes a few bugs:

Fixes when the props aren't named props:

function Baz(properties) {
  return (<div>{properties.children}</div>); // Didn' report here before
}

[HenriBeck]

@ljharb could you take a look?

[ljharb]

@HenriBeck i know it's been awhile; but did you have to delete the fork? This still seems useful, and I'd prefer not to have to have a different PR.

[HenriBeck]

@ljharb yeah, I just cleaned up my forks and forgot that I still had a PR open here.
I can recreate it when I have time, you can still see the changes so it shouldn't be too big of an effort.

[HenriBeck]

I also have the changes on my laptop.