gh-109371: Fix monitoring with instruction events set

[gaogaotiantian]

Two things were fixed:

1. In initialize_tools, we need to deopt INSTRUMENTED_INSTRUCTION to get the opcode to check for event. Unfortunately as whether the current opcode is instrumented is needed in the context later, we can't do _Py_GetBaseOpcode here to reduce the seemingly redundant logic.
2. In instrument, assertion that after deinstrumenting INSTRUMENTED_LINE and INSTRUMENTED_INSTRUCTION, the opcode would be NOT instrumented is invalid - it could still be instrumented for events like PY_RETURN.

Test cases were added for both scenarios.

• Issue: Crash in test_sys_setprofile if it follows test_sys_settrace #109371

[corona10]

LGTM with my little knowlege.

[miss-islington]

Thanks @gaogaotiantian for the PR, and @corona10 for merging it 🌮🎉.. I'm working now to backport this PR to: 3.12.
🐍🍒⛏🤖

[bedevere-app]

GH-109542 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.12 branch.

[bedevere-bot]

⚠️⚠️⚠️ Buildbot failure ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Hi! The buildbot s390x SLES 3.x has failed when building commit 412f5e8.

What do you need to do:

1. Don't panic.
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3. Go to the page of the buildbot that failed (https://buildbot.python.org/all/#builders/540/builds/6561) and take a look at the build logs.
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https://buildbot.python.org/all/#builders/540/builds/6561

Failed tests:

• test.test_asyncio.test_subprocess

Failed subtests:

• test_subprocess_consistent_callbacks - test.test_asyncio.test_subprocess.SubprocessThreadedWatcherTests.test_subprocess_consistent_callbacks

Summary of the results of the build (if available):

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Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/dje/cpython-buildarea/3.x.edelsohn-sles-z/build/Lib/test/test_asyncio/test_subprocess.py", line 788, in test_subprocess_consistent_callbacks
    self.loop.run_until_complete(main())
  File "/home/dje/cpython-buildarea/3.x.edelsohn-sles-z/build/Lib/asyncio/base_events.py", line 664, in run_until_complete
    return future.result()
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/dje/cpython-buildarea/3.x.edelsohn-sles-z/build/Lib/test/test_asyncio/test_subprocess.py", line 780, in main
    self.assertEqual(events, [
AssertionError: Lists differ: [('pi[29 chars]t'), 'pipe_connection_lost', ('pipe_data_recei[57 chars]ted'] != [('pi[29 chars]t'), ('pipe_data_received', 2, b'stderr'), 'pi[57 chars]ted']