Add shard-aware reconnection policies with support for scheduling constraints

[dkropachev]

Introduce ShardReconnectionPolicy and its implementations:

• NoDelayShardReconnectionPolicy: avoids reconnection delay and ensures at most one reconnection per host+shard.
• NoConcurrentShardReconnectionPolicy: limits concurrent reconnections to 1 per scope (Cluster or Host) using a backoff policy.

This feature enables finer control over shard reconnection behavior, helping prevent reconnection storms.

Fixes: #483

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[mykaul]

Shouldn't we have some warning / info level log when backoff is taking place?

[dkropachev]

Shouldn't we have some warning / info level log when backoff is taking place?

I would rather not do it, it is not useful and can potentially pollute the log

[Lorak-mmk]

Do you know what caused the test failure?

  =================================== FAILURES ===================================
  ___________________________ TypeTests.test_datetype ____________________________
  
  self = <tests.unit.test_types.TypeTests testMethod=test_datetype>
  
      def test_datetype(self):
          now_time_seconds = time.time()
          now_datetime = datetime.datetime.fromtimestamp(now_time_seconds, tz=datetime.timezone.utc)
      
          # Cassandra timestamps in millis
          now_timestamp = now_time_seconds * 1e3
      
          # same results serialized
  >       self.assertEqual(DateType.serialize(now_datetime, 0), DateType.serialize(now_timestamp, 0))
  E       AssertionError: b'\x00\x00\x01\x97<\x17\xda\xf9' != b'\x00\x00\x01\x97<\x17\xda\xf8'

it is a unit test that at the first glance should be fully deterministic. Failure is unexpected.
From the assertion it looks like some off-by-one error.

[dkropachev]

Do you know what caused the test failure?

  =================================== FAILURES ===================================
  ___________________________ TypeTests.test_datetype ____________________________
  
  self = <tests.unit.test_types.TypeTests testMethod=test_datetype>
  
      def test_datetype(self):
          now_time_seconds = time.time()
          now_datetime = datetime.datetime.fromtimestamp(now_time_seconds, tz=datetime.timezone.utc)
      
          # Cassandra timestamps in millis
          now_timestamp = now_time_seconds * 1e3
      
          # same results serialized
  >       self.assertEqual(DateType.serialize(now_datetime, 0), DateType.serialize(now_timestamp, 0))
  E       AssertionError: b'\x00\x00\x01\x97<\x17\xda\xf9' != b'\x00\x00\x01\x97<\x17\xda\xf8'

it is a unit test that at the first glance should be fully deterministic. Failure is unexpected. From the assertion it looks like some off-by-one error.

It is known issue, conversion goes wrong somewhere