SKS-3932: Bump CAPI to v1.9.9

[haijianyang]

Change

Management Cluster: v1.28.x -> v1.32.x
Workload Cluster: v1.26.x -> v1.32.x

Bump

• go v1.23.11
• controller-runtime v0.19.6
• controller-gen v0.16.1

New

• KubeadmControlPlane: Implement pre-terminate hook for clean Machine Deletion (#11137)
• KubeadmControlPlane: NamingStrategy for Machines (#11123)
• Update
• MachineSet/MachineDeployment: Foreground deletion for MachineDeployments and MachineSets (#11174)
• Improve Node drain observability (#11074 #11121)
• MachineDrainRules Configurable Machine drain behavior (#11240)
• top waiting for detachment of volumes belonging to Pods ignored during drain (#11246 #11386)
• Deprecation
• API: Deprecated FailureMessage and FailureReason fields (#11317)
• The ClusterCacheTracker component has been deprecated (#11312 #11340), please use the new ClusterCache instead.

Breaking

• Machine: Ignore attached Volumes referred by pods ignored during drain (#11246)

Fix

• Machine: Machine Controller should try to retrieve node on delete (#11032)

Test

通过了 E2E 测试。