Docker compose dependency causes failures during Maven AOT processing

[philwebb]

Similar to #35433.

Comment from Andy:

The Maven side of things is more complicated for the reasons that Moritz described here. We could filter out spring-boot-devtools and spring-boot-docker-compose from the AOT processing classpath, but we don't have that level of control over the native image classpath. That's why we ended up with b9ae61f to disable DevTools in a native image. I think we'll have to do something similar for the Docker Compose support.

[philwebb]

I'm not sure we can use NativeDetector because we need to disable before bean definitions are added.