KafkaProducerMessageHandler send failure messages for immediate exceptions

[garyrussell]

Discussed in #8637

^{Originally posted by yevsh June 1, 2023}
Sometimes there are "error" network/kafka cluster errors - that can be only detected when we see in logs something like:

"INFO","logger":"org.apache.kafka.clients.NetworkClient","message":"[Producer clientId=producer-1] Node 2 disconnected.

The problem KafkaTemplate/KafkaProducerMessageHandler can't identify it as error, and data can be lost.

Need some reliable solution for this.